Sexual Headcanon (Ralph Lanyon)

[toujours_nigel]

1. Service top. And how. Works amazingly with Alec and Bunny, not really beyond a point with Laurie.
2. Has a slow refractory period, and in fact a slow rate of arousal. (This is what inspired the list)
3. Will ask for your consent non-verbally, verbally, and then at several points during.
4. Gets bored and occasionally breaks to chat in between acts, often while his partner is gasping on the verge, if feeling particularly cruel or tarty.
5. Is competent but unsophisticated when left to himself, but on the whole prefers not to be.
6. Is prone to masturbation in a clinical sort of way and rare bouts of self-abuse. Yes the two are distinct. Only one involves thinking of other people.
7. Kinks hard on domesticity, which has an oddly carnivalesque, or masque-like appeal for him. At some point plays house with Alec very happily.
8. Quite kinky in general, in sufficiently-knowing hands. Bunny, therefore. Some others. Not in fact Alec beyond rare bouts of knife or needle-play, in large part because of the domesticity kink.
9. Likes both middle-aged posh men, and rough trade. Consciously avoids both especially due to having been the one and on his way to being the other.
10. Is a masochist. Though this feels rather like MR's head-canon, really.

Wanna know about anyone else? Ask.